In some areas, a body can be incinerated without a coffin at all. If the ashes are not scattered, the urn or small coffin that contain the “cremains” may be kept at the home of the deceased’s family. Funeral directors understand that many people are uncomfortable when thinking of a loved one decomposing. Cremation can be chosen regardless of what religious belief is involved. Cremation can, in addition, be a great option for those who are worried about environmental factors. For some, on this day of “green” consciousness, cremation is a viable and loving way to send their loved ones off.
Regardless of whether the choice is a burial or cremation, either choice may not be appropriate for all parties involved. Last Wills and Testaments of the deceased should be honored – always. However, in cases where the desires of the deceased are not clear, very mature reflection with respect and love must be determined before any final decision is made.
Cremation is a very delicate topic to most people. If you make the choice for yourself or for a loved one, your preference can be made through many factors. Some people have a fear of narrow spaces. Very often, the idea of a funeral is particularly terrible for these people. Some people have a serious pathological or psychological fear of being buried in the ground or in a tomb. This thought can often leave people in a state of panic so that thinking may carry on in their Will. However, many times, people are able to cope with their own death much better.
Some find the concept of having their ashes or the ashes of their loved ones scattered in the wind or over water, which is a very beautiful thought. After a cremation, the “ashes” of the deceased are returned to the family. According to the wishes of the family, the cremains can be placed in a special box called a cinerary urn which is sealed or placed in a small wooden or metal box. Sometimes, however, the cremains (especially if they will be scattered) are returned to the family in a box lined with plastic and cardboard. Many people, however, prefer the notion of “spreading” their loved one’s ashes. To determine which option is best, it is smart to contact local cremation companies in Tacoma.
