Introducing sex toys to your partner and relationship sounds like fun. If you want tips on how to make sure everything goes smoothly, here are tips to help you out.
Pick the Right Time
If you and your partner have good communication and a foundation of trust, then you can bring up the idea. Make sure you choose a time when your partner is comfortable talking about sex and bed play.
Take About What You Want
Before buying a couples sex toy kit, talk about your non-negotiables with each other. What activities are you willing to try? Which ones are you not quite ready for? Consider all that before you pick a sex toy or kit.
Don’t Rush
If the thought of some of those bedroom activities take you by surprise, don’t rush into it. Ease into the idea. Start with activities that are easy for you and your partner and go from there. You’ll know when you’re both ready for all the rest.
Offer Reassurance
Make sure your partner understands why you want to try sex toys. Your partner might think that you’re already bored with your sex life and that’s why you want toys to spice it up. Instead, make it clear that this is just another way for you both to be emotionally and intimately close.
Do Your Homework
There are so many sex toys and kits that you could try. Start checking out which options are ideal for couples. Knowing what your options are will help you figure out which kit is right for you and your partner.
Shop Together
Browse through those products together. It’s so much more fun with the two of you thinking about using that kit or toy on each other. Talk openly about which options you’re curious about and which ones you can’t wait to try.
